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Sunday, July 22, 2012

Christians Adopting More "Special Needs" Children

Christianity Today reports that as countries place tighter restrictions on international adoptions, more Americans are expanding their view of adoption and adopting those with "special needs."
(Please excuse the inaccurate and offensive title of the article.)


Adoptable Kids in Short Supply

But demand is high as evangelicals adopt wider variety of children than ever.  
by Ken Walker

Tighter government restrictions have reduced the number of children adopted from overseas to a 15-year low. In response, evangelicals—more willing than ever to adopt—are broadening the type of children they are willing to take in. More families, for example, are taking special-needs children, older kids, and those in foster care. Meanwhile, agencies are developing childcare subsidies and other programs to facilitate in-country adoptions.  

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Adoption steps to the front lines of the culture wars

An article from Christianity Today - http://www.christianitytoday.com/ct/2010/january/7.12.html

Orphans on Deck

by Bobby Ross Jr.

Adoption is arguably one of the Christian social ministries most central to evangelical theology. It has—to a greater extent than church positions on issues such as abortion and marriage—avoided becoming entangled in politics. Until now.
A foster dad's court challenge to a Florida law banning adoption by gays and lesbians has made headlines in recent months. So has a proposed same-sex marriage law in the District of Columbia that the Catholic Archdiocese of Washington warned could force it to cancel its social service programs, including adoption.
At the federal level, U.S. Rep. Pete Stark introduced a bill in October dubbed the "Every Child Deserves a Family Act." The California Democrat's proposal immediately drew the ire of the Institutional Religious Freedom Alliance (IRF). IRF claims the proposed law could run "roughshod over the convictions of many faith-based adoption agencies" and "require every state to forbid every agency that it licenses from preferring mother-father families over gay families or single parents."

"Obviously, it's becoming a political issue," Marquette University political scientist John McAdams said of adoption.

"The fundamental problem is that secular elites—who basically don't like religious people at all—aren't willing to make any concessions at all to the consciousnesses of religious people," said McAdams, an evangelical Christian and Republican. In such a climate, children needing homes take a back seat to politics, he said.

McAdams points to Massachusetts as a prime example: In 2006, Catholic Charities of Boston stopped its 103-year-old adoption service rather than comply with a state law that made it illegal to discriminate against gay and lesbian couples when placing children into homes.

Russell D. Moore, a leading Southern Baptist theologian and author of "Adopted for Life: The Priority of Adoption for Christian Families and Churches," voices concern about "religious liberty concerns rising in the adoption arena."

"When states force Roman Catholic and evangelical Protestant adoption services and children's homes to override their religious concepts of the family in placing children, the mission of the church itself is at stake," Moore said.

On the other hand, voters in Arkansas last year passed a referendum banning unmarried couples from adopting or fostering children—a direct attack on gay parenting. Gov. Mike Beebe, a Democrat and active member of an Episcopal Church, voiced concern in November that the law hinders the state's ability to recruit qualified parents.

"It was just a matter of time before [adoption] was used as a lightning rod," said Ram Cnaan, director of the Program for Religion and Social Policy Research at the University of Pennsylvania.

Stark's proposal would increase the role of for-profit adoption agencies and minimize that of nonprofit and faith-based providers, Cnaan said. As a social worker and researcher, he would prefer a government policy that encourages all agencies to allow lgbt people to adopt but stops short of forcing organizations to do so.

"Marginalizing the uniqueness of faith-based organizations and forcing them to act secularly is the cookie-cutter type mistake," Cnaan said. "Not all adoption agencies should be molded to be alike, as many children and families have different needs that can be best met by allowing many different providers to co-exist."

On a broader scale, adoption is a legal process that always has been subject to politics, said John VanValkenburg, spokesman for Bethany Christian Services, the largest adoption agency in the world with more than 80 locations in 32 states.
Both political parties, for example, have supported a federal tax credit for families who adopt—a benefit that Grand Rapids, Michigan-based Bethany hopes to see renewed or made permanent before it expires at the end of 2010, VanValkenburg said.

"Awareness of the importance of adoption has increased as a result of President Obama, who repeatedly mentions adoption as a part of a positive strategy to reduce abortions," he added.

But Jedd Medefind, president of the Christian Alliance for Orphans in McLean, Virginia, said he fears that children in need of families will lose the most as activists work to redefine marriage—and, in turn, adoption rules.

"If it limits the right of Christian agencies to serve in ways consistent with their convictions, government will ultimately lose many of its greatest allies in finding families for kids in needs," said Medefind, who directed the White House Office of Faith-Based and Community Initiatives as a special assistant to former President George W. Bush.

Like Medefind, Kay Ekstrom, executive director of the Phoenix-based National Association of Christian Child and Family Agencies, expresses concern about what she sees as the increasing politicization of adoption. Yet, in her view, the bigger headline is this: Tens of thousands of children remain stuck in foster care without permanent homes as Christians fail to step up to the challenge.

"If every Christian church in America produced one adopting family for an older child, we could wipe out the list of 'waiting children,'" said Ekstrom, who spent 25 years as president of the Christian Family Care Agency in Arizona. "And if God's people were responding to this need, the issue of adopting by gay people wouldn't be an issue. All the children would have homes."

Thursday, November 5, 2009

More about Safe Families - Mentor Families



If you or your group wants to support or be a part of the Safe Families  program, but are unable to take a child into your home, consider becoming a Mentor Family. Mentor Families provide supplemental support to the Safe Families during placement.  Mentor Families will provide friendship, resources, daily living items, knowledge and prayer for families who are in crisis.  Each crisis family who enters the Safe Families for Children program will work with a Mentor Family and will benefit from support and encouragement enabling every family to get back on their feet and allowing their children to return to a crisis free home.

A Mentor provides support for either the Safe Family or the family that is in crisis.  Some examples of how a mentor may help:
 - provide diapers to the Safe Family
 - donate clothes
 - help the Safe Family transport children to school
 -  provide gas or Publix cards to the Safe Family
 - take a member of the in-crisis family to a job interview.

This would also be a fantastic service project or ministry for Sunday school classes, churches, etc.  For more information contact Alison Schminke, (407) 877- 4006, aschminke@bethany.org.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Safe Families – A program where families help families


A crisis can happen to any family at any time. When it does most of us have family and friends upon which we can rely. Many families, however, lack this important support system. This puts children in those families at risk for abuse and neglect. Bethany Christian Services has created a safety net for these children, The Safe Families for Children program, which helps parents experiencing a temporary crisis arrange for their children to stay with a safe, Christian, loving family until the crisis has passed.


The Safe Families program is seeking volunteers who can reach out to those in need in their community. These volunteers become Safe Families who open their homes to families in need by temporarily supporting children who are welcomed into their home. Safe Families will provide love, support, and a safe place for children during their placement and will work cooperatively with Bethany Christian Services and the crisis family to ensure a positive placement for all children involved. Safe Families will be provided with education and training to ensure that they are able and equipped to support children in their homes. Education, background checks, references, and a home visit will be conducted by a Bethany worker to prepare each family for the Safe Families for Children program.


Safe Family volunteers include single individuals, married couples with children of any age, and empty nesters, all of whom simply decided to make room in their hearts and homes for children in need. They can have a powerful impact in the lives of others while practicing biblical hospitality, extending the love of Christ to people in need, sharing their faith, and connecting with those from another culture – all from their own home! Volunteers make a direct impact on the life of a child!


Basic Information about Safe Families


*Even though Safe Families began in 2002, the Orlando program is just getting off the ground, commencing July 15, 2009.

*Safe Families is a DCF– funded Preventative program. It’s designed to keep children out of the foster care system. SF steps in and provides safe homes for children before their situation warrants removal by DCF and placement in foster care. The children and their families are able to stay out of the state system.


*SF needs 10 families by December and 25 families by July, 2110. (They currently have 2 families.)



*There are highly successful programs similar to Safe Families in other U.S. cities such as Chicago and Atlanta. The Chicago program, for example, currently has 500 volunteer families with 300 placements per year.



*One of the reasons the program is so successful is that it is totally voluntary. The in-crisis family voluntarily asks for help, as opposed to being in the program because their children were forcibly removed by the state. These in-crisis families do not want their children placed into foster care! These families know that the volunteers are participating because they care – not for money. Knowing their children will be temporarily staying with a loving, safe, back-ground -checked family while they recover from their crisis serves to eliminate some stress and worry.



*The children in this program are not in foster care, not abused, not neglected. Bethany hears about their families through:
- Referrals from the state – there is no abuse in the family, but the family is experiencing an economic hardship.
- Through partnerships with churches – people go to churches seeking help (this is how Bethany also recruits SF volunteers)
- Through crisis centers – such as pregnancy crisis centers, homeless shelters, etc.

*Some examples of in-crisis family situations:
- Single mother with cancer who needs someone to take care of her children while she gets treatment
- Parents losing their jobs and facing eviction and homelessness
- A pregnant teenager who was thrown out of her parents’ home
- Children whose mothers are undergoing drug rehabilitation

*Volunteers and in-crisis families always meet in a public place and no personal information is exchanged (unless this is something both parties want to do on their own).

*Volunteers have total discretion on the type and length of placements. Placements can range from a weekend to 3-4 months at most. Volunteers can accept or decline placements at any time, and can pick age groups of children. For example, if you have a family vacation planned during the month of July, you can decline placements during that month; or you may postpone placements during the holidays. Placements occur at the volunteers’ preference.

If you would like to learn more about Safe Families, would like a Safe Families coordinator speak to your group, church, Sunday School class, etc., or if you feel you can make a difference in a child’s life and contribute to the Safe Families program please contact Alison Schminke:
aschminke@bethany.org
407-877-4006

http://www.bethany.org/A55798/bethanyWWW.nsf/0/3366FA3E48C61C07852574D500668B3D

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Invitation to learn about a voluntary program designed to prevent child abuse and neglect for children in our community

Tuesday, October 20 at 7:00 pm, Alison Schminke of Bethany Christian Services, will present Safe Families for Children, a new program which is coming to Central Florida.

What is Safe Families? It is a voluntary program designed to prevent abuse and neglect for children in our community. A Safe Family is a volunteer who opens their home and provide a child with a safe, nurturing place to live while their parents work to bring stability back to their family. Families who are in crisis are given training and support so that they can get to a place where they are ready to bring their child(ren) back home.

You are under no obligation whatsoever to sign up to become a Safe Family by attending the meeting on Oct 20. Perhaps you know someone who might be interested. The commitment is much less than becoming a foster family with children staying up to 90 days in your home. You can say no to a placement if it is not the right time to add a child to your home for a short time.

If you think you would like to learn more, we would love to have you attend on October 20. If you could let me know you are attending it would help with knowing who to expect. You are always welcome to just show up. Please feel free to pass this along to anyone you know who might be interested.
For questions or more information contact Tracy Matheson at First United Methodist Church of Winter Park @ 407-644-2906 ext 256.