Showing posts with label Safe Families for Children. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Safe Families for Children. Show all posts

Thursday, November 5, 2009

More about Safe Families - Mentor Families



If you or your group wants to support or be a part of the Safe Families  program, but are unable to take a child into your home, consider becoming a Mentor Family. Mentor Families provide supplemental support to the Safe Families during placement.  Mentor Families will provide friendship, resources, daily living items, knowledge and prayer for families who are in crisis.  Each crisis family who enters the Safe Families for Children program will work with a Mentor Family and will benefit from support and encouragement enabling every family to get back on their feet and allowing their children to return to a crisis free home.

A Mentor provides support for either the Safe Family or the family that is in crisis.  Some examples of how a mentor may help:
 - provide diapers to the Safe Family
 - donate clothes
 - help the Safe Family transport children to school
 -  provide gas or Publix cards to the Safe Family
 - take a member of the in-crisis family to a job interview.

This would also be a fantastic service project or ministry for Sunday school classes, churches, etc.  For more information contact Alison Schminke, (407) 877- 4006, aschminke@bethany.org.

Friday, October 23, 2009

Safe Families – A program where families help families


A crisis can happen to any family at any time. When it does most of us have family and friends upon which we can rely. Many families, however, lack this important support system. This puts children in those families at risk for abuse and neglect. Bethany Christian Services has created a safety net for these children, The Safe Families for Children program, which helps parents experiencing a temporary crisis arrange for their children to stay with a safe, Christian, loving family until the crisis has passed.


The Safe Families program is seeking volunteers who can reach out to those in need in their community. These volunteers become Safe Families who open their homes to families in need by temporarily supporting children who are welcomed into their home. Safe Families will provide love, support, and a safe place for children during their placement and will work cooperatively with Bethany Christian Services and the crisis family to ensure a positive placement for all children involved. Safe Families will be provided with education and training to ensure that they are able and equipped to support children in their homes. Education, background checks, references, and a home visit will be conducted by a Bethany worker to prepare each family for the Safe Families for Children program.


Safe Family volunteers include single individuals, married couples with children of any age, and empty nesters, all of whom simply decided to make room in their hearts and homes for children in need. They can have a powerful impact in the lives of others while practicing biblical hospitality, extending the love of Christ to people in need, sharing their faith, and connecting with those from another culture – all from their own home! Volunteers make a direct impact on the life of a child!


Basic Information about Safe Families


*Even though Safe Families began in 2002, the Orlando program is just getting off the ground, commencing July 15, 2009.

*Safe Families is a DCF– funded Preventative program. It’s designed to keep children out of the foster care system. SF steps in and provides safe homes for children before their situation warrants removal by DCF and placement in foster care. The children and their families are able to stay out of the state system.


*SF needs 10 families by December and 25 families by July, 2110. (They currently have 2 families.)



*There are highly successful programs similar to Safe Families in other U.S. cities such as Chicago and Atlanta. The Chicago program, for example, currently has 500 volunteer families with 300 placements per year.



*One of the reasons the program is so successful is that it is totally voluntary. The in-crisis family voluntarily asks for help, as opposed to being in the program because their children were forcibly removed by the state. These in-crisis families do not want their children placed into foster care! These families know that the volunteers are participating because they care – not for money. Knowing their children will be temporarily staying with a loving, safe, back-ground -checked family while they recover from their crisis serves to eliminate some stress and worry.



*The children in this program are not in foster care, not abused, not neglected. Bethany hears about their families through:
- Referrals from the state – there is no abuse in the family, but the family is experiencing an economic hardship.
- Through partnerships with churches – people go to churches seeking help (this is how Bethany also recruits SF volunteers)
- Through crisis centers – such as pregnancy crisis centers, homeless shelters, etc.

*Some examples of in-crisis family situations:
- Single mother with cancer who needs someone to take care of her children while she gets treatment
- Parents losing their jobs and facing eviction and homelessness
- A pregnant teenager who was thrown out of her parents’ home
- Children whose mothers are undergoing drug rehabilitation

*Volunteers and in-crisis families always meet in a public place and no personal information is exchanged (unless this is something both parties want to do on their own).

*Volunteers have total discretion on the type and length of placements. Placements can range from a weekend to 3-4 months at most. Volunteers can accept or decline placements at any time, and can pick age groups of children. For example, if you have a family vacation planned during the month of July, you can decline placements during that month; or you may postpone placements during the holidays. Placements occur at the volunteers’ preference.

If you would like to learn more about Safe Families, would like a Safe Families coordinator speak to your group, church, Sunday School class, etc., or if you feel you can make a difference in a child’s life and contribute to the Safe Families program please contact Alison Schminke:
aschminke@bethany.org
407-877-4006

http://www.bethany.org/A55798/bethanyWWW.nsf/0/3366FA3E48C61C07852574D500668B3D

Tuesday, October 13, 2009

Invitation to learn about a voluntary program designed to prevent child abuse and neglect for children in our community

Tuesday, October 20 at 7:00 pm, Alison Schminke of Bethany Christian Services, will present Safe Families for Children, a new program which is coming to Central Florida.

What is Safe Families? It is a voluntary program designed to prevent abuse and neglect for children in our community. A Safe Family is a volunteer who opens their home and provide a child with a safe, nurturing place to live while their parents work to bring stability back to their family. Families who are in crisis are given training and support so that they can get to a place where they are ready to bring their child(ren) back home.

You are under no obligation whatsoever to sign up to become a Safe Family by attending the meeting on Oct 20. Perhaps you know someone who might be interested. The commitment is much less than becoming a foster family with children staying up to 90 days in your home. You can say no to a placement if it is not the right time to add a child to your home for a short time.

If you think you would like to learn more, we would love to have you attend on October 20. If you could let me know you are attending it would help with knowing who to expect. You are always welcome to just show up. Please feel free to pass this along to anyone you know who might be interested.
For questions or more information contact Tracy Matheson at First United Methodist Church of Winter Park @ 407-644-2906 ext 256.